People often ask me how I find the time to exercise or how I find the motivation to. When I tell people that I work out 6 days a week they gasp, “My goodness! How do you find the time?” or “I wish I could be that motivated!”.
To me, it’s simple. I make time and I make exercise my number one priority, therefore I’m always motivated (or darn near close to it – I’m human, I don’t always want to workout you know! It’s exhausting!).
But I can understand that it can be hard for others. So here are my own personal tips on finding time and motivation to exercise.
Before I can go on with that though, we need to address something far more important. Your level of desire or “want”.
Now, it’s easy for people to complain, “Oh I really want to lose a few kilos!” or “I’d really love to just tone up a little!”. It’s EASY to just complain about it and do nothing. But I often think, if you really want something, then why not go out and get it? The world is your oyster and all that jazz, the sky is the limit etc etc. Nobody wants to hear your whinging so you have 2 options:
a) Do something about it; OR
b) Live with your body the way it is now and embrace life.
If you want to do something about it, read on. If you don’t, save your time and energy, stop whinging about how you want to change, because let’s face it – you really don’t, and just carry on with life. You will be much happier when you stop complaining, I guarantee you.
So firstly, let’s talk about TIME.
We have 24 hours in a day. 8 of them should be spent sleeping, 10 – 12 of them are spent either at work or travelling to work and then you have a lovely 4 – 6 hours to do whatever it is you please. You could spend some time with family, you could cook dinner, you could sit down to watch your favourite show and you should STILL be able to squeeze in 30 – 45 minutes of exercise (see here for some ideas).
You just need to make time. Again, if it is important to you, (and you shouldn’t be reading this if it isn’t!) then you will make time.
Personally, I sacrifice my lunch hour to go and work out or I do it early in the morning so it is over and done with before I start my day. You just need to find the right time for you.
Secondly, let’s talk about MOTIVATION.
Let’s get real here – it’s not often that motivation just occurs overnight. You don’t just leap out of bed one morning and say, “From here on in I will exercise EVERY DAY, I will give it 100% and I will never give up!”. If you have done that, and succeeded, well done you! You should walk around with an S on your chest because you are one bad ass mo fo!
If you are anything like me (a human who has struggled with motivation most of her life), motivation will happen a little more like this – you will work out HARD, you will watch your diet, you will remain positive and ready to accept change, you will stick to a routine for a good 2 or more months, you will begin to see results and then voila! Motivation.
Once you consistently see the scales move (numbers declining, not inclining!) and your clothes start to feel loose you will finally feel that spur of motivation to continue. You will WANT to exercise, you will WANT to treat your body right and you will WANT to have that same feeling of accomplishment that you felt when you lost that first couple of kilos or when you shrunk those few centimetres. It would be most unusual if you suddenly went, “Right, well that’s it for me! I’ve had enough of feeling good about myself! I would now like to return to sloth mode, thanks!”. Seriously. That would be messed up.
So motivation takes time. But stick with it – all guns will be blazing soon enough.
Alright, so let’s recap:
1. Make time to exercise
2. Assess your level of desire to change
3. Make exercise and looking after yourself your number one priority
4. Stick with your routine and remain positive – change only occurs when you are ready to accept it
5. Motivation will come with time
I hope that this has been helpful to someone out there in the blogosphere as it has really been helpful to me.
What motivates you to exercise?